Nobody really cares about your adventures. They will like the first three FB posts and then it’s just old news. Your mom and aunt will continue to like every photo and update though.
And the lives of others goes on without you … you are not part of your friends’ daily/weekly life anymore, birthdays are celebrated without you, you are not in the nights out photos, your friends are going to eat your favourite food at your favorite place, your best friend breaks up and you are too far away to support her.
You have to give your holiday planning and budget extra attention. It comes to down deciding between flying to see your family or going on that cool foreign city break?
One can collect a.LOT.of.stuff during a stay abroad. The big question is: do you really have space for that beer glass you stole on that awesome night out?
The plan you made on going to do sightseeing/touristy things every weekend? Not going to last. Mainly because of …
… the money you thought was going to be enough to get you through those six months turns out to be enough for three if you’re lucky.
Most food just isn’t the same, despite many assurances it will be.
You grow. Up, but also apart. At some point you have to accept you can’t relate to certain friends anymore.
Those who shout ” I’ll visit you!” the loudest don’t come at all. And others just come because the can crash at your place for free.
Making friends as an adult is harder. Don’t you sometimes wish you were eight and could make friends by just saying: ” I like your dress! Let’s be friends.” Apparently this is frowned upon above the age of 12.
Sometimes you think you know the language like the back of your hand, but then realise you probably need your cheat notes written on the back of your hand.
It’s not an Eat Pray Love experience, but more of an Eat, Cry and Skype your mom.
Moving from country to country can get addictive. A six month internship can easily turn out in eight years of country hopping.
It gets harder to pack your life in a suitcase, despite your feeble attempts to buy a bigger suitcase that still counts as hand luggage.